Read Josh's talk to understand this picture
Monday, January 20, 2014
“The Process Will Change Us”
In the film “Mans Search for Happiness” Elder Evans states:“Life offers you two precious gifts—one is time, the other freedom of choice, the freedom to buy with your time what you will. You are free to exchange your allotment of time for thrills. You may trade it for base desires. You may invest it in greed. …“Yours is the freedom to choose. But these are no bargains, for in them you find no lasting satisfaction.“Every day, every hour, every minute of your span of mortal years must sometime be accounted for. And it is in this life that you walk by faith and prove yourself able to choose good over evil, right over wrong, enduring happiness over mere amusement. And your eternal reward will be according to your choosing.“A prophet of God has said: ‘Men are that they might have joy’—a joy that includes a fullness of life, a life dedicated to service, to love and harmony in the home, and the fruits of honest toil—an acceptance of the Gospel of Jesus Christ—of its requirements and commandments.“Only in these will you find true happiness, the happiness which doesn’t fade with the lights and the music and the crowds.” Elder Evans “Mans Search for Happiness”President Heber J. Grant said this:“There is but one path of safety to the Latter-day Saints, and that is the path of duty. It is not testimony, it is not marvelous manifestations, it is not knowing that the Gospel of Jesus Christ is true, . . . it is not actually knowing that the Savior is the Redeemer, and that Joseph Smith was His prophet, that will save you and me, but it is the keeping of the commandments of God, the living the life of a Latter-day Saint.” [Heber J. Grant,Improvement Era, November 1936, p. 659]Much has always been asked of a true disciple of Jesus Christ. The accounts we have in the scriptures teach us of the blessings of performing our duty. Those that follow Christ are not free from heart ache and adversity but they know as Nephi said “in whom they have trusted”.Let me encourage you by telling you a story. President Eyring told this story that his father shared with him. His father told it with the intent to chuckle at himself. It was a story about his trying to do his duty, just the way you try to do your duty.Quote “Now you have to know a little bit about my father. His name was Henry Eyring, like mine. His work in chemistry was substantial enough to bring him many honors, but he was still a member of a ward of the Church with his duty to do. To appreciate this story, you have to realize that it occurred when he was nearly eighty and had bone cancer. He had bone cancer so badly in his hips that he could hardly move. The pain was great.Dad was the senior high councilor in his stake with the responsibility for the welfare farm. An assignment was given to weed a field of onions, so Dad assigned himself to go work on the farm.Dad never told me how hard it was, but I have met several people who were with him that day. One I talked to said that he was weeding in the row next to Dad through much of the day. He told me the same thing that others who were there that day have told me. He said that the pain was so great that Dad was pulling himself along on his stomach with his elbows. He couldn’t kneel. The pain was too great for him to kneel. Everyone who has talked to me has remarked how Dad smiled, and laughed, and talked happily with them as they worked in that field of onions.Now, this is the joke Dad told me on himself, afterward. He said he was there at the end of the day. After all the work was finished and the onions were all weeded, someone asked him, “Henry, good heavens! You didn’t pull those weeds, did you? Those weeds were sprayed two days ago, and they were going to die anyway.”Dad just roared. He thought that was the funniest thing. He thought it was a great joke on himself. He had worked through the day in the wrong weeds. They had been sprayed and would have died anyway.When Dad told me this story, I knew how tough it was. So I said to him, “Dad, how could you make a joke out of that? How could you take it so pleasantly?”He said something to me that I will never forget, and I hope you won’t. He said, “Hal, I wasn’t there for the weeds.”Now, you’ll be in an onion patch much of your life. So will I. It will be hard to see the powers of heaven magnifying us or our efforts. It may even be hard to see our work being of any value at all. And sometimes our work won’t go well.But you didn’t come for the weeds. You came for the Savior..” President EyringThe refining process is different for each of us. The amazing thing, when we think of the billions of God’s children, is his plan accounts for us each individually and offers us each a personally tailored path back to him. Complete with the necessary trials and triumphs. The real challenge is to submit ourselves to the Savior and accept his will as our own. To make his duty our duty.We read that the Apostle Paul sought to be healed from the “thorn in the flesh” that buffeted him (2 Corinthians 12:7). I’m sure he must of thought “if only I was free from this affliction just think of the people I could help and teach”. Yet on three separate occasions the Lord declined to heal him.Have we ever thought to ourselves “if only I had more strength, if only I had better health, if only I was younger or if only I were older then I could make a difference”.Paul later wrote that the Lord explained, “My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness” (v. 9). Paul obediently responded that he would “rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me … for when I am weak, then am I strong” (vv. 9–10).Years ago when I started my business we were just getting by trying to find work and get established. I spent a great deal of time praying for the Lords help to provide for my family and the families of those that worked for me.During one particularly slow time I was praying and searching for a job to get us through the slow winter. I was presented with an opportunity to perform the demo work for a bag house.For those that are not familiar with what a bag house is. It is a huge enclosed structure that sits about 40 feet in the air above burners. It contains filters to filter the air from the burners.Now this bag house was at a silver refinery and had been out of use for some time. The bag house had over 600, 11 foot long filters each about 8 inches in diameter that needed removed and the filter bags separated from the cages.I went and looked at the job, pulled one of the cages that was loose and cut the filter from the cage. I was comfortable with our ability to perform the work even though I had never before seen anything like this.The most astonishing thing was that the payment amount offered was almost exactly what we needed to get through the next month. I saw this as an answer to prayer and agreed to start that next week.We started Monday morning, but it wasn’t long before we realized how difficult the task before us really was.The filter I pulled while looking at the job was the exception. The remaining filters required unbelievable effort to remove them. We tried hammers, crow bars, pics, hammer drills, grinders and nothing seemed to help. As we worked and pulled the filters, the soot from the filters caused a dark, black cloud to fill the bag house. We would constantly take turns walking outside to get fresh air.We worked late into the evening only removing a few dozen that first day. We went home that night exhausted and covered in black soot. It was a sobering thought as we anticipated the next day’s labor.The next day was much of the same. The work was draining. My fingers were blistered and sore from pulling the filters and my back was aching from hauling the long awkward cages.At one point I found myself alone in the bag house kneeling down pulling on the filters. The others had gone out for fresh air. I started to feel as though I could do no more. My strength was gone. I prayed to my Heavenly Father “I Know this is a blessing from you but I don’t have the strength to go on and if we don’t finish we will not receive the payment we so desperately need. Please help.”As I closed my prayer, I felt a wonderful warm feeling inside me and new I had help from above. The work didn’t get much easier. We did develop some techniques that help speed up the process but day after day we went home filthy and exhausted and woke the next morning able to press on.We finally completed the job! It did require, however, discarding every tool or item of clothing we used on the job as the thick layer of soot wouldn’t come off, but I was reminded of a valuable lesson that day.I keep a picture in my scriptures, which I would love to show anyone interested, of us as we finished on the last day working on that bag house. Covered in black soot head to toe with tools in hand and smiles on our faces. I wrote a scripture from Moroni 7:33 on the back with a note that simply says “faith in Christ = power to accomplish his work”, and now when I am faced with difficult tasks or feel I have given all I can I look at that picture and remember the strength of the lord, the strength beyond my own.Alma taught his son Helaman, as he began his ministry:“Preach unto them repentance, and faith on the Lord Jesus Christ; teach them to humble themselves and to be meek and lowly in heart; teach them to withstand every temptation of the devil, with their faith on the Lord Jesus Christ.Teach them to never be weary of good works, but to be meek and lowly in heart; for such shall find rest to their souls.” [Alma 37:33–34]President Eyring said:“The good works that really matter require the help of heaven. And the help of heaven requires working past the point of fatigue so far that only the meek and lowly will keep going long enough.The Lord doesn’t put us through this test just to give us a grade; he does it because the process will change us.”The evidence of this process is all around us. We see it in our friends and family those we respect and admire most for their strength and determination. We can also see it in ourselves if, we look close enough. It’s often marked by challenges and trials. Not because we seek for difficulties but because doing the right thing often means making sacrifices or coming out of our comfort zone to reach out to those around us.Most off the fruits of this process are found in quiet times of reflection. We can see the blessings. We know as the storm rages on around us the inner peace the Savior offers us. “Peace I leave with you, (He said), my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” John 14:27Brothers and sisters I have a testimony of this process. Each of us must accept the Lord’s sacrifice and the eternal gift of the atonement through more than word alone, but through action.I pray as we receive guidance from our prophet and, as we receive goals and challenges from our stake and ward leaders, that we will see them as part of our duty and remember“Faith in Christ = Power to accomplish his work”.I Testify, that he is, as the scripture says, “Him who is mighty to save.” 2Nephi 31:19May the Lord bless each of us as we press forward calling on His holy name, is my prayer.In the name of Jesus Christ amen. -Joshua James Tidwell (The first)
Sunday, January 5, 2014
"Peace Be Still"
I promised Mama I would post my talk I gave last week in sacrament so here it goes.
The book of Mark tells of a story of Jesus where after
teaching a group of people on the shore of the Sea of Galilee tells his
disciples to take their ships to the other side. As they journeyed a great
storm arose intense enough to make these men (among which were seasoned
fishermen) extremely nervous fearing that they were about to perish. When they
looked to their Master for guidance they were astonished to find him asleep.
They awoke Him and inquired as to how he could sleep when they were about to be
swallowed up by the sea. Jesus then calmly arose rebuked the wind and said unto
the sea “Pease be still”. The Lord then turned to his disciples and asked them
why they were fearful questioning them about their faith. Now I want you to
keep this story in mind because we will revisit it later but first, I want to
address this famous line Christ used as he calmed the sea; Peace, be still.
In Doctrine and Covenants section 59 verse 23 the Lord gives us a promise it reads: “But
learn that he who doeth the works of righteousness shall receive his reward,
even peace in this world, and eternal life in the world to come”. In language
as plain as it gets we are promised if we are righteous we will receive as our
reward peace in “this” world. Well we need not look far to see that sometimes
this doesn’t always “seem” to be the case. I’m sure we all know of righteous
people that have gone through experiences that we would be hard pressed to call
peaceful times. The history of the early days of the church is a perfect example
of this. Here were a people who were driven from place to place, persecuted and
slaughtered as a direct consequence of doing what God had asked them to do;
that is to reestablish His church on the earth. It is also interesting to note
that the Savior was not spared from this hard reality either. At the
announcement of his birth to the shepherds the angles rejoiced and exclaimed
peace on earth. When the announcement of His birth reached Herod however, he
ordered the slaughter of countless innocent infants in Bethlehem. The rest of
his life wasn’t so peaceful either. Throughout his ministry he was mocked and
persecuted at every turn. In fact the only instance the scriptures referenced a
time where he got a moment to relax he was awoken by his disciples because of a
storm. Finally, the Savior paid the ultimate price for his righteousness as he
was beaten, mocked and crucified. So what then is this peace we are promised?
In Elder Quentin L. Cook’s talk in this past April’s
general conference entitled “Pearsonal Peace: The Reward of Righteousness”, he
spoke of the “doctrinal difference between… world peace and personal
peace”. Moral agency is the defining
gift of this mortal life and it is essential to God’s plan of happiness for us.
For me agency provides two important roles in this testing period of mortal
life: First, it provides us an opportunity to grow by our choosing to obey
God’s will for us and to eventually align our will with His. This agency is
given to all and sadly most of us abuse this gift and many to the detriment of
others. Second, something that we often overlook is that this agency of others
often provides us with the trials and experiences necessary for our growth. A
muscle does not get stronger unless it is worked against resistance. We are not
here to experience world peace but to experience peace in spite of the world.
Near the end of His life, in an attempt to prepare His
apostles for his crucifixion and assention into heaven, Jesus gives this council found in John
chapter 14 verse 27: “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as
the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let
it be afraid.” Now Christ new what the apostles were about to face; he knew
that they were not headed for a life of tranquility. Again, and as he here
specifically states, he is not promising worldly peace but he knows that the
Atonement he is about to make will be the only means by which this
personal/internal peace that He promised can be obtained. In Alma chapter 7
verses 11-13 we read: “And he shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions
and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be fulfilled which
saith he will take upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people. And he
will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of death which bind his
people; and he will take upon him their infirmities, that his bowels may be
filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that he may know according to the
flesh how to succor his people according to their infirmities. Now the Spirit
knoweth all things; nevertheless the Son of God suffereth according to the
flesh that he might take upon him the sins of his people, that he might blot
out their transgressions according to the power of his deliverance…” As far as
I can understand the Atonement provides us this peace in two ways. First, it is
only through the Atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ that we can conquer death
and be washed clean from our sins to be able to stand in the presence of our
Father in Heaven. This gives us a hope that in spite of what the world may
throw at us we may, if we will choose Christ, receive all that the Father hath.
What an empowering thought this is; to
know that we are the only ones that can keep this ultimate blessing from ourselves
there is nothing anyone else can do to take this gift from us. Second, we learn
from this scripture that Christ suffered all our pains, sicknesses and
afflictions; he also experienced our temptations and has a perfect knowledge of
our infirmities. He did this, the scripture states, so that he would know how
to succor us. We don’t have to settle for a well-intentioned individual trying
to understand what we are going through. He quite literally knows exactly how
we fill not how he would fill facing the same problem but what we with our
individual personalities and weaknesses are going through. And he has promised
over and over that he will always be there for us if we but seek him
diligently.
The Lord has also provided a way for us to escape the
troubles of this world if only for a small moment. As Karen just spoke of so
beautifully, the Temple can be a wonderful refuge for us to escape the cares of
the world and feel the peace of our Savior as we draw closer to him. For our young children however it is our
homes that must stand as this refuge. Anyone that knows Nelson can imagine that
our home is not always what you might consider a peaceful environment this is
compounded exponentially when he is teamed up with Emilyne, now it is not our
children that drive the spirit away but the way we may sometimes respond to
their actions. The environment we provide is what allows our young children to
feel the peace that the Savior promises. In the March
Ensign of 1994 there is an article entitled "Helping Children Hear the
Still, Small Voice" in it there is a paragraph that reads: Many teachers
of foreign languages believe that children learn a language best in “immersion
programs,” in which they are surrounded by other speakers of the language and
called upon to speak it themselves. They learn not just to say words, but to
speak fluently and even to think in the new language. The proper “immersion”
setting for a spiritual education is in the home, where spiritual principles
can form the basis for daily living. “And thou shalt teach [the Lord’s words]
diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine
house and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou
risest up”. I know because my
children have such a wonderful mother who is constantly teaching them of the
love of the Savior and a love for others our home is a place where our children
can escape to feel the love and peace that the Spirit offers.
Returning to our story; after rebuking the storm Christ
turned to his disciples and questioned: “Why are ye so fearful? How is it that
ye have no faith?” now I don’t think the Lord was questioning why they didn’t
rebuke the storm themselves; I don’t even believe that he was telling them that
they should have known that he would not let anything bad happen to them. What
I believe he was telling them is that their faith could offer them the same
peace he was experiencing asleep on the boat even while everything else seemed
to be falling apart around them and I believe his message is the same to us
today.
I testify that God Lives and loves each of us individually
he desires that we may have peace in our lives. I testify that Jesus is the
Christ the very Son of God who atoned for us so that we might have this peace.
I testify that this is Christ’s church and that it is only through the
ordinances offered in this church that we can receive the eternal peace that
God has in store for us and I share that in the name of Jesus Christ Amen.
Thursday, December 26, 2013
The Forty Day Fast
Helaman 3:35 Nevertheless they did afast and bpray oft, and did wax stronger and stronger in their chumility, and firmer and firmer in the faith of Christ, unto the filling their souls with joy and consolation, yea, even to the dpurifying and the esanctification of their hearts, which sanctification cometh because of their fyielding their hearts unto God.
This is the scripture theme of the 40 day fast, which we will talk more about.
Na and I were talking recently my trek experience and her mission. For both of us these experiences were extreme spiritual highs for us. We both felt closer to God after these experiences. We talked about while you are affected by these spiritual highs you have an increased hunger for knowledge and to share your knowledge of the gospel. We change and become better. But it is not always easy to stay this way. As we go through daily life, we realized, that sometimes we seek heaven to obliquely. This negatively affects us spiritually and causes us to lose the desire to seek knowledge which causes us to lose more of the spirit. A damning cycle that we must not get into, but we all do. thankfully for all of us an atonement was made so we don't have to stay in this cycle, we can get out. The Lord has given us many ways to help us keep the spirit and progress on His path, one of these ways is through fasting and prayer. In this life all of us are striving to over come the appetites of the natural man, fasting gives us the opportunity to develope self-mastery. In fasting we put our spirits before our bodies, in doing this we are learning to "yield our hearts unto God". The Savior set his example of fasting with His forty day fast. We can do the same, but of course we cannot go that long without eating but we can do this in our own mortal way here is how it will work.
It begins with prayer even before you start the fast. In Alma 46, Moroni prayed to know where to sanctify his cities. As we humbly come to The Lord and seek to know what is keeping us from truly being close to Him, He will surely guide us.(examples: negative thinking towards your self or others, being quick to anger, rude speech, and many others) We will be inspired to know what we need to change and how we can apply His Atonement to make this change. Write it down. This will be the spiritual focus for your fast.
You will also need to decide what you will fast from physically. This can be anything. (Examples:going without chocolate or sugar in General, waking up earlier and studying more going without worldly media, really anything the spirit guides you to do).
You begin the fast by actually fasting (two consecutive meals),such as on fast sunday. Each morning during this fast pray about the things on your lists and ask The Lord for help. Each evening report to The Lord on how you have done. Give thanks and repent where needed. Continue for forty days and then end with a fast just as you began.
We invite all of you cuties to experience your own forty day fast. We know that as you do this you will feel an increased measure of the spirit. You will come even closer to Christ. We know that He desires to be close to us but we must make the choice every day to be close to Him. We know the changes we experiences are only possible through the Atoning sacrifice of our Savior, Jesus Christ. We love Him and we love you all.
Love, Cheeseman and Miss Na
Just a note to say... By small and simple things are great things brought to pass . But by striving prayerfully to improve each day we show The Lord that we want Him in our lives. Which brings us an increase in the spirit which always brings an increased desire for knowledge which brings us to more repentance and increase in spirit. A cycle we want to be in and because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ we can be in.
This is the scripture theme of the 40 day fast, which we will talk more about.
Na and I were talking recently my trek experience and her mission. For both of us these experiences were extreme spiritual highs for us. We both felt closer to God after these experiences. We talked about while you are affected by these spiritual highs you have an increased hunger for knowledge and to share your knowledge of the gospel. We change and become better. But it is not always easy to stay this way. As we go through daily life, we realized, that sometimes we seek heaven to obliquely. This negatively affects us spiritually and causes us to lose the desire to seek knowledge which causes us to lose more of the spirit. A damning cycle that we must not get into, but we all do. thankfully for all of us an atonement was made so we don't have to stay in this cycle, we can get out. The Lord has given us many ways to help us keep the spirit and progress on His path, one of these ways is through fasting and prayer. In this life all of us are striving to over come the appetites of the natural man, fasting gives us the opportunity to develope self-mastery. In fasting we put our spirits before our bodies, in doing this we are learning to "yield our hearts unto God". The Savior set his example of fasting with His forty day fast. We can do the same, but of course we cannot go that long without eating but we can do this in our own mortal way here is how it will work.
It begins with prayer even before you start the fast. In Alma 46, Moroni prayed to know where to sanctify his cities. As we humbly come to The Lord and seek to know what is keeping us from truly being close to Him, He will surely guide us.(examples: negative thinking towards your self or others, being quick to anger, rude speech, and many others) We will be inspired to know what we need to change and how we can apply His Atonement to make this change. Write it down. This will be the spiritual focus for your fast.
You will also need to decide what you will fast from physically. This can be anything. (Examples:going without chocolate or sugar in General, waking up earlier and studying more going without worldly media, really anything the spirit guides you to do).
You begin the fast by actually fasting (two consecutive meals),such as on fast sunday. Each morning during this fast pray about the things on your lists and ask The Lord for help. Each evening report to The Lord on how you have done. Give thanks and repent where needed. Continue for forty days and then end with a fast just as you began.
We invite all of you cuties to experience your own forty day fast. We know that as you do this you will feel an increased measure of the spirit. You will come even closer to Christ. We know that He desires to be close to us but we must make the choice every day to be close to Him. We know the changes we experiences are only possible through the Atoning sacrifice of our Savior, Jesus Christ. We love Him and we love you all.
Love, Cheeseman and Miss Na
Just a note to say... By small and simple things are great things brought to pass . But by striving prayerfully to improve each day we show The Lord that we want Him in our lives. Which brings us an increase in the spirit which always brings an increased desire for knowledge which brings us to more repentance and increase in spirit. A cycle we want to be in and because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ we can be in.
Sunday, December 22, 2013
It's a jolly holiday with Mary
Just thought I would post these pictures of Mary because well isn't she just delightful? If this doesn't put a little extra joy into your season I'm not sure what will.
Almost every time I turn she's showing off her superman pose. We're not sure if she's doing her daily workout or if her belly's just way too big for her to lay normally.
Also here is the link to the neighborhood kids choir that Grace and Anna formed for their Christmas service. They went and sang at a Senior living place acroos the street. It was adorable!
And here's another if you want to see their Sat. morning dance concert they came up with. If you'll notice Anna is wearing the leotard we bought her like 5 years ago when Brielle Emily taught her dance in the basement. But I think the real treat is watching Emilyne.
Tuesday, December 17, 2013
Acting and Faith
I have started to read Elder Bednar's book Increase in learning. And in it he talks a lot about action and faith. It made me realize that that is why I love this blog so much. As I have posted I never knew what I was going to write in advanced, I simply acted on faith. As I wrote I learned, writing gave the Holy Ghost the opportunity to teach me. I feel we all had this same experience when wrote on the blog. So I got this idea. What if each week or so we all read a conference talk or had a subject assigned to read about, and then we post what we learn from it and questions we found. I feel that this will give us increased opportunity to act because we will have an assignment to do. I realized from Bednar that we truly increase in learning when it becomes ours. Take math for an example. Has anyone noticed that you can't learn math until you actually do it. You can see you teacher do all the problems it the world. But it is not until you act and do the hours of homework, that you actually learn it. This is because when you do the math homework it becomes yours. From doing those seemingly ridiculos hours of algebra it has become mine. Its not something someone made up, it is something that I did, that is apart of me. I feel this same principle will apply to us if we start unitedly reading the conference talk or studying whatever, the words of the prophets will become our words as we strive to teach it to each other and question it with each other. In the comment section of the blog I have learned a lot as others have added to what I or others have said, because it builds on the principle and helps me to act, by seeking to understand better, thus fore making the words mine.
So I hope you all consider this and give me some feed back on it. If you want to do it or not or how you want to do it and then we can go from there. Make sure you comment because we're expecting everyone to participate so we are expecting everyone to comment on how they want to do it. So we can best do this to make the most out of this blog we can.
-fo cheesial my nizzle
So I hope you all consider this and give me some feed back on it. If you want to do it or not or how you want to do it and then we can go from there. Make sure you comment because we're expecting everyone to participate so we are expecting everyone to comment on how they want to do it. So we can best do this to make the most out of this blog we can.
-fo cheesial my nizzle
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